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In Need of Your Essays, Ideas and Service Tips

Sensual Service is here as a resource for submissives looking to become or enhance service skills. What I have here is just the start... Read more »

Woman Within

The Punishment Place

by kaya Sometimes I get punished for not following a rule, doing something I know I’m not supposed to or vice versa. Those punishments seem perfunctory. It’s an integral part of our lifestyle, this discipline and punishment. Maybe just... Read More »

In The Dungeon

The PLEASURE of the PAIN Why Some People Need S & M - sadomasochistic sex

The PLEASURE of the PAIN Why Some People Need S & M - sadomasochistic sex

by Marianne Apostolides Bind my ankles with your white cotton rope so I cannot walk. Bind my wrists so I cannot push you away. Place me on the bed and wrap your rope tighter around my skin... Read More »

Intimacy

The Selective Slut

The Selective Slut

by Kayla Kuffs The first time I was called a slut in a BDSM context I was extremely insulted. How dare they? How rude! But I was too new to this lifestyle to do anything more than think those words. I did however, notice the term slut tossed around... Read More »

Ritual Service

The Importance of Rules

The Importance of Rules

by luna Rules, instructions and assignments are things that are given to me by my Dominant for very important reasons. To follow them should bring me the pride and happiness that I feel for him, and remind me that he cares for me. Rules are in... Read More »

Self Care

Understanding…Feminine Hygiene

 by raven Vaginal wetness and odor are normal and all women have to contend with it. My goal with this essay is to educate you on what the most common causes are. Give you some guidelines on how to deal with it safely. Know when... Read More »

Domestics

Back to the Basics: Hand Washing Dishes

Back to the Basics: Hand Washing Dishes

by danae at Domestic Servitude Wash While Cooking — While cooking wash as many dishes as you go, of course there are last minute things that won’t be possible to wash but at least give them a scrap and get some water... Read More »

Recent Posts

Week of December 1st

Service submissive vs. Housekeeper. What’s the difference between drudgery and service? What makes your service different than what you can pay for?
How do you view ‘fear’?
What is the one thing you never thought you would do, and how did you feel when you accomplished it? Was it something you did for yourself, or for someone [...]

Week of November 24th

Do you and your partner(s) celebrate any special holidays? Or, do you celebrate the standard holidays in special ways, with special rituals, because of your D/s status?
How do you handle anger in your relationships with others? Does that differ from how you handle expressing anger in a relationship where you serve?
“As long as there is [...]

Week of November 17th

Does your Owner stand on courtesy? Do they use please and thank you with requests from you? How does it make you feel? Do you not take it as an order if it has please after it?
How do you find that gratitude changes your outlook? Does this affect your slavery at all?
“The most fortunate of [...]

Back to the Basics: Hand Washing Dishes

Back to the Basics: Hand Washing Dishes

by danae at Domestic Servitude
Wash While Cooking — While cooking wash as many dishes as you go, of course there are last minute things that won’t be possible to wash but at least give them a scrap and get some water into them to soak while you have dinner.
Scrape and Stack — To ready things [...]

Week of November 10th

Do you ever get ‘down time’ or some time where you can choose how to relax? If so, what is your favorite way to spend it?
If you were not in your current situation… what would you want to do?
Do you believe people in general are honest with themselves? Is this something you strive for?
“Real confidence [...]