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Submissive Journal Prompts for times when you need some help formulating your thoughts. Please feel free to use these to blog about when you are at a loss for words, you can cross post these to any site or list you feel can use them. I’d like it if you put a link back to where you got them from so that other people can find them. Thank you!

Week of January 5th

Do you like yourself? Do you accept yourself? Do you love yourself?
Are you a perfectionist?
“Sometimes what seems like surrender isn’t surrender at all. It’s about what’s going on in our hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being [...]

Week of December 29th

Are you a perfectionist? Does that help or hinder your service?
What ten words would you use to describe yourself to someone?
Do you ever find that you overanalyze? If so, does that ever interfere with your service?
Have you been to a play party? What was your first experience like?
What skill would you most like to learn [...]

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Week of December 22nd

Have a Merry Christmas everyone!
Prompts will be back after the New Year!

Week of December 15th

Do you make resolutions- at new year’s or any other time of the year?
“There is a calmness to a life lived in gratitude, a quiet joy.” - Ralph H. Blum
Are you micromanaged? Do you find you flourish best in a micromanaged environment? Why or why not?
Do you practice green living? What recycling do you do? [...]

Week of December 8th

“I had nothing to conceal, nothing to keep secret. I belonged to my master, all of me, my thoughts, my love, my body, everything I was and could be!” -John Norman, Dancer of Gor
“A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things which renew humanity.” - Buddha
Do you sleep [...]

Week of December 1st

Service submissive vs. Housekeeper. What’s the difference between drudgery and service? What makes your service different than what you can pay for?
How do you view ‘fear’?
What is the one thing you never thought you would do, and how did you feel when you accomplished it? Was it something you did for yourself, or for someone [...]

Week of November 24th

Do you and your partner(s) celebrate any special holidays? Or, do you celebrate the standard holidays in special ways, with special rituals, because of your D/s status?
How do you handle anger in your relationships with others? Does that differ from how you handle expressing anger in a relationship where you serve?
“As long as there is [...]

Week of November 17th

Does your Owner stand on courtesy? Do they use please and thank you with requests from you? How does it make you feel? Do you not take it as an order if it has please after it?
How do you find that gratitude changes your outlook? Does this affect your slavery at all?
“The most fortunate of [...]

Week of November 10th

Do you ever get ‘down time’ or some time where you can choose how to relax? If so, what is your favorite way to spend it?
If you were not in your current situation… what would you want to do?
Do you believe people in general are honest with themselves? Is this something you strive for?
“Real confidence [...]