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Week of January 5th

luna — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:00:34 +0000

Do you like yourself? Do you accept yourself? Do you love yourself?
Are you a perfectionist?
“Sometimes what seems like surrender isn’t surrender at all. It’s about what’s going on in our hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being true to it is far, far greater.”- Nicholas Evans, The Horse Whisperer
Are you a people pleaser?
“A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. Jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity.” - Robert Heinlein

Week of December 29th

luna — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 21:00:42 +0000

Are you a perfectionist? Does that help or hinder your service?
What ten words would you use to describe yourself to someone?
Do you ever find that you overanalyze? If so, does that ever interfere with your service?
Have you been to a play party? What was your first experience like?
What skill would you most like to learn to enhance your service?

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luna — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 20:30:31 +0000

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Week of December 22nd

luna — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 21:00:40 +0000

Have a Merry Christmas everyone!

Prompts will be back after the New Year!

Week of December 15th

luna — Sun, 14 Dec 2008 21:00:57 +0000

Do you make resolutions- at new year’s or any other time of the year?
“There is a calmness to a life lived in gratitude, a quiet joy.” - Ralph H. Blum
Are you micromanaged? Do you find you flourish best in a micromanaged environment? Why or why not?
Do you practice green living? What recycling do you do? Any tips you’d like to pass on?
Is focus something you strive for? Do you meditate or do other practices which allow you to focus?

Week of December 8th

luna — Sun, 07 Dec 2008 21:00:38 +0000

“I had nothing to conceal, nothing to keep secret. I belonged to my master, all of me, my thoughts, my love, my body, everything I was and could be!” -John Norman, Dancer of Gor
“A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things which renew humanity.” - Buddha
Do you sleep chained? Are you tied to the bed? Are you allowed to leave the bed during the night? Are you allowed in your owner’s bed at all?
Do you have any special Christmas rituals?
Share your first Christmas story.

Week of December 1st

luna — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 21:00:17 +0000

Service submissive vs. Housekeeper. What’s the difference between drudgery and service? What makes your service different than what you can pay for?
How do you view ‘fear’?
What is the one thing you never thought you would do, and how did you feel when you accomplished it? Was it something you did for yourself, or for someone else?
How did you meet the person you serve? If you are currently seeking, where or how are you looking for the right one?
If you are a service submissive without a partner, how do you negotiate sexual service?

Week of November 24th

luna — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 21:00:51 +0000

Do you and your partner(s) celebrate any special holidays? Or, do you celebrate the standard holidays in special ways, with special rituals, because of your D/s status?
How do you handle anger in your relationships with others? Does that differ from how you handle expressing anger in a relationship where you serve?
“As long as there is a back door, you will be glancing at it and thinking about escape, and you won’t look in the direction of freedom. You won’t let go, because you are convinced that what you are holding onto will be enough for you.” -Cheri Huber
Do you consider yourself proactive, reactive, or a blend of the two?
Have you ever been hypnotized? Has hypnosis ever played a part in your service?

Week of November 17th

luna — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:00:23 +0000

Does your Owner stand on courtesy? Do they use please and thank you with requests from you? How does it make you feel? Do you not take it as an order if it has please after it?
How do you find that gratitude changes your outlook? Does this affect your slavery at all?
“The most fortunate of persons is he who has the most means to satisfy his vagaries.” -Marquis de Sade
What personality traits have you found to be the most useful to you in your service?
How important is it to you that you accurately describe yourself or your dynamic? How do you feel about the following quote: “How many legs does a dog have if you call the tail a leg? Four. Calling a tail a leg doesn’t make it a leg.” -Abraham Lincoln

Week of November 10th

luna — Sun, 09 Nov 2008 21:00:29 +0000

Do you ever get ‘down time’ or some time where you can choose how to relax? If so, what is your favorite way to spend it?
If you were not in your current situation… what would you want to do?
Do you believe people in general are honest with themselves? Is this something you strive for?
“Real confidence comes from knowing and accepting yourself–your strengths and your limitations–in contrast to depending on affirmation from others.” -Judith M. Bardwick
“As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe